Many
times the Zen Master Tao was approached by students who were feeling
down because they had been insulted or treated unfairly. This story he
would tell them in order for them to understanding that they are only
allowing themselves to feel that way:
There once lived a great
warrior. Though quite old, he still was able to defeat any challenger.
His reputation extended far and wide throughout the land and many
students gathered to study under him.
One day an infamous young
warrior arrived at the village. He was determined to be the first man to
defeat the great master. Along with his strength, he had an uncanny
ability to spot and exploit any weakness in an opponent. He would wait
for his opponent to make the first move, thus revealing a weakness, and
then would strike with merciless force and lightning speed. No one had
ever lasted with him in a match beyond the first move.
Much against
the advice of his concerned students, the old master gladly accepted the
young warrior's challenge. As the two squared off for battle, the young
warrior began to hurl insults at the old master. He threw dirt and spit
in his face. For a very long while he verbally assaulted him with every
curse and insult known to mankind. But the old warrior merely stood
there motionless and calm. Finally, the young warrior exhausted himself.
Knowing he was defeated, he left feeling ashamed.
Somewhat
disappointed that he did not fight the insolent youth, the students
gathered around the old master and questioned him. "How could you endure
such an indignity? How did you drive him away?"
"If someone comes
to give you a gift and you do not receive it," the master replied, "to
whom does the gift belong?" and the Master walked away leaving the
students to ponder over his explanation.